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Self-Care Challenge Day 7: “Un-Should” Yourself

Get control of your "shoulds" and self-doubt.

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Are you “shoulding” all over yourself? Telling yourself that you should be doing something that you’re not? Jen explains how to get control of the inner voice that might be telling you unfounded and paralyzing messages of self-doubt.

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