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Take Yourself on a Date

Why taking time to treat yourself to simple pleasures is critical to self-care.

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The longest relationship we will ever have is the one with ourselves. It’s important that we recognize and nurture this fundamental relationship the same as we would a beloved family member or a friend. One of my favorite activities is envisioning my perfect day—and going on a date with myself.

Simple pleasures are an easy way that we can practice self-care. Reframing self-care as things that are pleasurable, accessible, and enjoyable help us incorporate them into our regular routine. Give yourself a break from the pressures of life, have some fun, and connect with yourself—gift yourself time with yourself. It’s a date!

 

I have to remind myself from the very moment I wake up that I must prioritize having a nurturing relationship with myself. One way to practice this is to greet yourself first thing in the morning just as you would a loved one. Acknowledge and show yourself some love by gently touching your hand to your heart, or by giving yourself a loving hug.

As a creative, artist, and teacher I am mindful of how my work can benefit others. At the start of my day, I like to practice self affirmations to feel grounded in who I am and to set my intentions. This allows me to be open to inspiration from others without changing how I view myself or my work.

Self-care is about allowing yourself to indulge in simple pleasures. I like to find a new coffee shop I’ve never been to before. No matter what gives you joy, sometimes simply trying something new can delight us in ways that lift us out of a rut, or even support our creative process.

On my perfect day, I love to be in a public space where I am free to turn inward and connect with myself. I usually bring my journal so I can jot down any thoughts or feelings I have. Sometimes I bring my sketch book to practice calligraphy. It’s in these quiet moments that we can tune in and learn from and about ourselves.

As much as I love treating myself to a spa day, sometimes it’s not in my budget. But you don’t need access to a spa to receive the nourishment you need. Spending time outdoors is a great way to relax and feel refreshed. Whenever I look up at the sky and take in the nature all around us, I am reminded that we are all connected to and supported by mother earth.

For me, nothing completes a perfect day more than incorporating a little bit of movement, and gratitude.

At the end of your day, take time to reflect on what went well, and check in with how you feel. Maybe you feel a little lighter, softer, happier. Take a moment to name the things that gave you pleasure, helped you relax, made you smile. This practice of gratitude not only supports a good night’s rest, it sets a supportive tone and intention for welcoming a new day.

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Cetus—a leader in health and wellness technology offering high-quality health care devices to help you look and feel your best at any age—is the Official Technology sponsor of the 2021 Yoga Journal Live Be Yoga Experience.

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Yoga Journal’s 2021 Live Be Yoga Experience presented by NOW includes video classes, exclusive content, and special offerings from the Live Be Yoga sponsors: Cetus, JointFlex, NOW Essential Oils and Supplements, Visit Sun Valley, and Zebra CBD. This year our intention is to SPARK JOY through movement, mindfulness, rest, gratitude, and kindness. Check out other content at 2021 Live Be Yoga Experience and stay connected with us @livebeyoga.