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When I was a young medical doctor, I would often roster myself to work in the ER over Christmas, allowing colleagues who celebrated the holiday to be with their families. We were prepared for a very busy time in the emergency room, and one of the most common symptoms we treated was depression, with its underlying sense of alienation and loneliness.
For all of us, the holiday season exerts pressures at some level. It can be one of the least peaceful times of the year. Holiday shopping, visiting with family, the hassles of planning and traveling, managing food and alcohol consumption, getting enough exercise, and maintaining our yoga routines can all be overwhelming.
As yoga teachers, this is an ideal time to encourage our students to apply what they have learned in class. We can tell our students that managing the holiday season is their opportunity to practice all they have learned and embodied over the year.
There are a number of ways we can teach students to maintain a calm center during the storm of the holidays. The first thing to do is to dedicate some quiet class time for contemplation and meditation. Allow students to find a comfortable, seated position. Once they have settled in, ask them to contemplate what a particular holiday means to them. As they develop a sense of meaning, suggest that they focus on disentangling commercial pressures from the essence of the holidays.
You may try prompting them with questions like:
Stress is the biggest issue for most students during the holidays.
During meditation, ask your students to visualize one stressful situation and how they would normally deal with it. Ask them:
You may then choose to guide them in Alternate-Nostril Breathing (Nadi Shodhana Pranayama), Conqueror Breath (Ujjayi Pranayama), or Channel-Cleaning Breath (Nadi Shodhana Pranayama). Remind students that yoga is more than technique; it is a way of being. Breath is the best tool we have to remain present; any time is a good time to practice moving and breathing more slowly and intentionally.
One thing that students really need to contemplate is how easy or difficult it will be for them to maintain some kind of yoga practice or discipline during the holidays. This could be something that is opened up for general class discussion, since peer support is extremely valuable.
Schedules often break down during the holidays, so we need to become much more creative in how we apply yoga in our lives. We can be prepared to take opportunities that present themselves to apply a technique in appropriate ways. For example, we could:
At the same time, we need to remember how important it is to create time to calm and ground ourselves between events. During class discussion, ask your students to consider what an appropriate routine would be for them during this period. When can they schedule a five- to ten-minute yoga or meditation break?
Asana, Pranayama, and meditation practice are not ends in themselves, but means to an end. That end is to develop a greater inner resilience and a more stable mind that can handle the difficulties of life with greater calm and poise.
As yoga teachers, we want to encourage our students to be the best versions of themselves—but we also need to remind our students that the goal isn’t to be perfect. In fact, perfection doesn’t exist. That’s why we call it a yoga practice.
It may be helpful to remind your students—especially during the holiday season—that it’s often a good thing to let go of our routines without guilt, and to notice what happens when we do so. We can practice a different type of yoga, perhaps the Yoga of Remaining Calm and Aware. Then when we do come back to our usual yoga practice, we bring a greater depth of experience and wisdom with us. We can get back into formal practice with renewed enthusiasm and a clearer direction of what we want to work toward in the new year.
If students wish to practice some form of higher yoga to nourish their spirit during the holiday season, they should focus on how they can support others less fortunate than themselves. It is an excellent time to practice selfless service and giving. It is a time when we can learn from and support others, especially those going through difficult times.
Here are a few tips you might offer your students for practicing higher yoga:
About Our Contributor
Dr. Swami Shankardev is a yogacharya, medical doctor, psychotherapist, author, and lecturer. He lived and studied with his guru, Swami Satyananda, for ten years in India (1974-1985). He lectures all over the world.